In honour of Valentine's Day, this week's blog looks at some of the most romantic stories and headstones in the Deceased Online collections marking the everlasting love of couples reunited after death.
While Valentine's Day is a fun celebration of love and romance for some, for others it can be a harsh reminder of loneliness or the loss of a loved one. Like birthdays, anniversaries and religious festivals, Valentine's Day triggers thoughts and memories of happy times with someone who is no longer here.
|An illustration of Sophia Peabody Hawthorne by Stephen Alonzo Schoff, taken from Nathaniel Hawthorne and HIs Wife: A Biography by Julian Hawthorne, p. 39 (Google books)|
Una's sister, Rose Hawthorne, founded a Roman Catholic order of nuns, the Dominican Sisters of Hawthorne. They were responsible for the London grave, which fell, damaging its markers. At this stage, the nuns decided to discontinue caring for the grave in Kensal Green, and to remove the bodies to Massachusetts. In 2006, Sophia and her daughter were reunited with Nathaniel when their remains were buried in a neighbouring plot in Sleepy Hollow.
It is not just famous married couples whose relationships and love for each other can be found in cemeteries. There are also many lesser-known lovers whose feelings are clearly inscribed on their headstones. This book-shaped memorial (above and below) to A. Charles Eberhardt and his wife, Elsie Maud, lies in Highgate Cemetery. As the inscription reveals, Charles Eberhardt died on the 15th May 1956. Elsie Maud lived on without him until 22nd January 1970 when they were reunited in the grave and the second page of the headstone "book" was completed. Elsie Maud's strong love for her husband can be felt on reading the words, "After 50 years together never forgotten." This memorial ensures that their love continues to be remembered today.
Other interesting examples from Highgate Cemetery of the strength of married love include the following headstone for James Oliver, who died in 1913, and his wife, Anna, who joined him in 1921. The sole word at the base reads simply,
MEMORY IS A GOLDEN CHAIN
THAT BINDS UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.
"REUNITED IN GOD'S KEEPING."
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Sources:New York Times http://www.nytimes.com/2006/06/27/us/27hawthorne.html